WeekendAway, UTI, CornDogSituation, Babydoll Dino

Its Friday and I am happy as can be... Nobody is going to Rain on My Parade...well its MY Friday at work today!... Since I won't be going to State Wrestling this year unless someone is there Saturday NIGHT wrestling...I won't be attending.. sadly..I'm very sad about it..actually...anyways... whatever..so after talking with Jake..I decided trying to get someone to watch both the monsters.... and surpisely their Aunt Kayla- said yes even after I told her I could probably find someone to watch one of them so she wouldn't have to manage such a circus and she said no..lol..well ok..you just signed your own life away...lol..ok your own weekend away! lol..anyways.. It was official..used up my last vacay day till July up... and it was set! :).... I am excited and happy that after I drop the kids off Friday morning sometime..I won't have to worry about nothing but me :)... how great is that?... how bad is that?... so I won't be winning the mother of the year award...o well..its not very often I'm without both my kids..so I'm going to enjoy it..

This week has been so, so... This will be TMI..but I don't care... your regular readers you will understand... soo... the back story... I never ever had a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) until after Sondra was born which I think is strange?...but I had like a few of them right after another..it was so horrible...then...the next one was when I was preggo with Stuart..and that just sucks..b.c. I don't think I was able to take the medicine that relieves the symptoms..or maybe I just didn't want to b.c. when I'm preggo I try to avoid everything unnecessary......so a few weeks ago I was talking with family who is prego(lets say her name rhymes with Messy lol sorry) and they were complaining about a UTI...lol and horrible person me I laughed at them and made a comment I hadn't had one in such a long time..and said sure sucks to be you...lol.... God did me one better instead of striking me down with a bolt of lighting for picking on a pregnant lady....last Friday I started feeling funny...then by Sunday I knew I probably should go to the Doc b.c. it had to be a UTI... but if you know me..you know I am very stubborn about that stuff...and so by Tuesday night..I went to after hours in Ada..b.c. I could feel my left side starting to hurt.lol...and let me tell you what... UTI's are the worst....I have a pretty high thrush hold for pain..real serious pain..but oh my goodness... the very first time I had a UTI...I had never had one.. didn't ask my Mom/Sister about it...till it was horrible..I mean I'm crying...and when I went to the doctor... I got in my room and as I waiting I started crying .b.c my side was hurting so bad..seriously me crying b.c. it hurt so bad...   Doc Tran asked me what was wrong..I told him I felt like I was going to die lol.... very Dramatic I know...anyways.. so to avoid all that stuff..I went to the doc before It got bad like a regular person does and got the antibiotics....but the antibiotics really made me drowsy...almost like I am in a fog... and then when I was reading about it before I took it..said it would mess up my sleeping patterns?...ok??... well ya I wake up at night?... lol..I don't necessarily have to pee or anything..I just wake up... its strange....So I have been tired all week..I have been dragging...wow...looking at the size of this paragraph I really didn't plan on telling you my medical history....

My Little Sondra Ray has been a ornery one.... so last night we went to parents...we get there I start making dinner... the kids get snacks...still Ms Sondra wants more...I give her another snack... my dad comes home heats up a corn dog... she instantly wants one...I tell her no she can have another apple..she refuses...she tries Grandma...her Grandma tells her No b.c. her Momma(me) says No.... a little bit later while dinner is in the oven I'm sitting in the living room vegging till dinner is ready.... I go out to the kitchen clean off the counter to get supper out... and find a plate with a corn dog stick on it....and I say Alfred...why didn't you throw your plate away..his reply mine is right here in the trash....then a little bit later  we are eating supper Sondra not finishing hers and I tell her No...eat some..you were so hungry... and she says not no more...and I say well your not getting a corn dog... and John just smiles....and I say John you didn't...lol... and Jake says: Sondra did your Uncle John make one for you? she says No..and Jake says I know your lying...its not good to Lie...and she says Yea he did...and John says SONDRA......and Sondra says..well John they guessed it the first time...... lol...that nasty girl knows how to work her family...especially her Uncle John...she knows he won't say no....

and Stuart I was so proud of him last night and tonight.... last night Sondra was playing with her princess dolls and Stuart kept trying to take one...and those are "off limit" toys in my opinion..so I get his baby...and he held and hug his for a little while...even took it to bed with him... then when I got him up this morning he grabbed it to get dressed.....then tonight he was holding it and was sharing his cookie with him....So the Baby was a Christmas present from an aunt and uncle...and I was the one that gave  her the idea..b.c. I wanted him to have one... I think all little boys need one... I think toys are sometimes too gender based..and I think having a baby will help to learn teach him like girls to mother/father.... and if parents can't get around the "baby doll" factor with boys..then they are the ones too small..

Which also.. Sondra loves dinosaurs...Dina Dan lit her fire for Dinosaurs... she can name them all...tell me if they are carnivores, herbivorous, or omnivores...and some even which period they are from... I love to see her fascination with them....maybe I'm raising the next great paleontologist.... wouldn't that be great? ...so I don't discourage it b.c. its a "boy thing"...but I'm helping her learn more..we made a Dinosaur field guide like Dino Dan's.... which I've been looking for dinosaur toys..but I can't find any i really like..when me and Jordan were little we played with the Jurassic Park ones...and those are nice...but even those they don't sell no more..and a lot of them on eBay are pretty expensive with shipping...SO...if any of you have any old ones you don't want no more..I'd be more than happy to take them off your hands...I'm still researching them...and hopefully find some for her....

welp...I must be winding down for tomorrow...still got  a lot to do for tomorrow...so I'll see you guys later...and hopefully I enjoy this nice long weekend :)
Love,
ME

Update for the week...almost missed ya!

I'm a little late but still within this week :)... I've had a "busy" week you could say... Wednesday Night I was able to babysit my neice Ainsley..which she was a complete doll :)...the kids loved it..Sondra just plain smitten to be able to be around Ainsley..and Stuart happy to be in a "baby home". He all night kept stealing Ains' bink..and then to my surprise stealing her bottle and drinking it... liking the taste of breastmilk...lol.... can't wait till he is old enough to share that detail with him...Thursday night I "watch" my 10 year old Nephew Colt...lol... he more or less watched Stu while I showered...major bonus of the "older" nephew...a very big highlight of my week was Monday night... we have been talking or me- gently begging to finally get a "nice" camera..and Monday night on Vday..Jake wanted to take Sondra to watch Cody Lovejoy wrestle and after I said go ahead me and stu will stay home...and he suggested Me & Stu go get that camera I wanted! What??? lol... Don't got to tell me twice...me and stu took the epic journey and did it. I was so excited happy over joyed!...Its my 3rd baby. I have been playing with it ever since. I love it...I haven't stopped taking photos with it...I CANNOT WAIT till it is time to take fancy photos with the kids.....I have missed taking pictures..my little kodak camera just wasn't up to what I wanted and I seen the difference in photos of the professional ones... so I am so happy I have the tools to do so....and also..the kind of camera I got will hold up for a long time....nice quality.

ONE OF THE 1ST PICS I TOOK W/MY CAMERA

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Work is going good... seems like things are "normal"..but not really...I still miss my Aunt Deb there...but she will be back before I know it... and I'm excited for the "project" I'm doing also...I'm working on getting an actual policy on billing..and updating on the steps as to past due bills and all that...also..working on changing as to how we bill out our weekly statements...moving from Quickbooks to doing it all on our database..(which this holds no value to people do not work on billings and stuff) but worth mentioning it is taking up time in my life... :) but I'm excited in my own way...

Thursday night Sondra wiggled her way into staying with her Aunt Rachel and Uncle Chris plus Ainsley. I know she enjoyed every minute of that. Seeing the pictures of her there made me laugh b.c. was always right next to Ains. She will kill me someday if she doesn't have a little sister....

Sondra, Ainsley & Rachel...Sondra had a blast

Friday Sondra stayed with Rachel and spent time with Grandma Clum too while I was with Stu in town having a "girls" night with my SIL Melissa and Jude :). We ran some errands ate supper and finished the night at crazy Walmart.... it amazed us how little we got and how much stuff is. We ended the night cuddling in my chair and eventually Sondra coming home w/Jake. I had already but Stu in bed and when Sondra walked in to get into bed he popped right up and screamed for her. It was so cute..he missed her. He gave her kisses and hugs. Made my heart melt..... after going in there numerous times to tell him to lay down and cover up he finally gave up!

I am completely wiped out from this weekend already... Today me and the kids went to LCC to support our Mustangs at Sectionals. JR, Tyler, Colt, Grant were Sectional Champs  and Max was 2nd. It was a exciting day to see them all move on to districts..and no other sport is as much as a family as Wrestling..or at least here at AE. Everyone is good company and I love how everyone helps with my Monsters. Any of them and all of them have taken Stu off my hands for a little while whether it was a lap for him to sit on..or a walk they provided while I could sit peacefully for a little while..I very much appreciate their help. Also while Stuart went with Daddy to watch another Wrestling Sectional in Shawnee ..me and Sondra went to the basketball game to see Alfred play. It was a good night JV won..and I'm not sure about the Varsity...we left in the middle of the 1st half of varsity game..someone mentioned why was I leaving...my reply...I'm a Alfred supporter..he is done playing lol.. I just can't sit in those seats one more minute when i did it all day already..My butt just couldn't take it.

Alfred tonight at his Game :) 

The AE Wrestlers

Tomorrow is Church day..which will include Jake & Sondra going and getting Ram Poly Pay...Sondra is pretty excited... which at times worry me b.c. I'm not sure how Sheepvested I am ...lol...also we are supposed to be getting the Round-pen set up for the horses..b.c. Sondra & her grandma have some horses that need trained....Sondra is always wanting to train some horses... she has that love for horses running through her veins..which makes me happy she is enjoying it.

So this week Stu has been more irritable then ever....all from his teeth coming in. Sondra was never like that. I never knew she had teeth coming in- its like I'd look in her mouth and they were there...now Stuart... whew... I have him on Tylenol just to keep him happy he will bring it to me! I don't blame the kid....just look in his mouth the next time you see him...

Stuart in one of his episodes today..likely cause..his vampire teeth coming in

I  gotta get going..I'm tired as hell..I am really excited about Sunday dinner tomorrow... I got a big beef brisket to make...we are going all out... mac and cheese potato wedges corn bread...aw man... sounds so good! So I'll talk to you all you guys soon. also though..I have a cousin on the Reffitt side named Jake that needs some extra prayer. He is fighting a addiction that almost got him for good. Pray for his strength and pray for everyone to support him to get through this.

Sondra really Missed her Uncle Coolie..he came home for the weekend  from College..

StuDrama HusbandTime GirlDateExcitement! :)

Ohh Good Golly! I am glad it is Friday!... I'm ready to Go..G..G-O! lol... you didn't peg as a cheer-leading type did I...me either...but when you have a daughter that thinks she is going to be a cheerleader..all of a sudden you start that...ggaahh... DO I really need to be a good "supportive Mother"... lol... anyways...I have felt like here lately I do need my own personal cheerleader!...nothing life ending...but just getting down... Monday night Stuart decided after being put to bed he would wake up at 9pm and puke up his whole supper everywhere..which this is the first real "puke" episode for him....after carry him in one arm and handful of penne pasta chased w/half digested hamburger and mucus in the other hand I seriously doubted myself ..why in the hell did I tell Jake to go ahead and take that advertising class at UNO for work... dumb me...another night I'm home with the kids  just us...(I know they are my kids and I'm supposed to watch them..but lately I have this thing as to why did I get married? I never see or really talk to my husband here lately)... I wondered if it was the food b.c. all of a sudden I felt sick too....b.c. I have never got sick from seeing-someone puking....maybe the catching it in my hand thing threw my game off!.... so...after bath cuddle time..and new bedding..I got him back in bed.... an hour later...again...not as much puke..but still the whole clean up and all that..but this time... I put him in our bed..and I was going to let his Daddy put him in bed....Daddy did...maybe in hour later...did it again..not as much..just mucus watery... but this time he stayed in our bed..and then it was hellish night of up and down...he wanted to lay on me...then wanted to lay on Daddy....I wasn't a happy person the next day..but he seem fine... 

Then Wednesday night...put him to bed like regular....11pm rolls around..he wakes up. crying..like he is dying... trying to figure out what is wrong with him??...nothing..the only thing I could come up with is at my parents that night he lol...was playing with a broom (b.c. he has a fetish with sweepers, mops, brooms)..and he had the end of the broom in his mouth (again- I'm a wonderful mother who watches her children very closely)..anyways...my brother John said he hit a bump in the road and fell..and he was wailing....so as he was screaming that night I wondered what I should do. my first thing first was drug him!... lol..I gave him some Tylenol. then I checked his mouth...I didn't see anything bruised or cut??.. I didn't see anything bleeding..or looked like it was bleeding... once we put him in our bed...he would cry on and off.. until the Tylenol started working..he cried so much I was seriously considering taking him to the ER...but all of a sudden he was ok...getting in and out of our bed getting books off the shelf to read... going out to the kitchen...then we were looking in his mouth again just to make sure there wasn't anything from the fall earlier.. Jake goes..Joie..Look at those teeth coming in...yup..I think that was the source of the crying...his mouth was probably sore from falling earlier..but I think just made me overly concerned... 

As previously mentioned.. not seeing my husband... Jake and I love each other..and what we have between each other...but we both do like our own time....I very much like at the end of the day after the kids are in bed asleep I like to sit in my chair and just do blah!... watch the shows I like...and with Jake ...he likes to veg out on the couch..and surf the internet about the Reds or the wrestling boards or the brackets of whatever tournament that weekend... so..its not like we get into some very deep conversations. I honestly can't remember the last time we went out on a date...a real one..the last one I can remember was going to see Dear John int he movies and eating at Poppa Johns...just us 2!... and Pretty sure that was before Stuart was born..lol...so..I'm voting for this year we have more date nights...although I love my children...sometimes I need reminded why I voluntarily not see my husband so much..and share him with a a team 7 days a week for months out of the year...and then once that stops...hay season begins...rrrrrr.... I better just stop now... I don't need extra help this time of the month to piss me off!

One very bright spot though... City Farmers Dinner last night was a hit! this was the first year that I have helped that it went so smoothly!... all the food was covered...more than enough help... just a success...I was very happy with everything... and I think every year from now on we will have 2 people in charge of getting volunteers and all that..after getting on in some of the planning for the retreat this year..I'm very excited!... its going to be a fun one! They got some neat ideas!

Also..since my Abortion post last week...I've lost a subscriber...I knew it may happen..but IDK... I can't fault them...but I don't apologize for facts.. to each his own... 

I'm excited about tonight though... I'm having a "girl Date".. lol... last year me and Kayla went and bought the 3rd twilight movie together...well this year...she asked if we were doing that..i wasn't really sure..and then talking about it at City farmers dinner... another friend wanted to go..almost getting the nights mixed up we were going to go last night...but figured it out it was tonight...anyways..we are all meeting at Sara's having a Coffee Date..then headed there to see all the crazies!...its so funny..its amazing how many show up.....they will be in costume a lot of times... or have fangs in lol..and then to stand in line and listen to some of them pick apart the movie lol...so entertaining... lol.... sadly my little Tatey butt can't go..so I'm getting her a copy and me too of course... lol... its fun... and I'll get stuff that I need so I then I won't even have to take my kiddies to Walmart...so fun... 

welp I gotta get going...got stuff to do! Keep me in your prayers..b.c. I need them!~ and I'll do the same for you! :) 

This is Winnie sharing a heat lamp with a chicken & baby Lamb. I have a feeling she misses the pampered life  :) 

 

Luv PP for Low costs care or killing babies..let me think

Hey All! :) This week has been a good one thus far. I got my pictures back from the Valentine's shoot. Man... I'm gonna hurt Sondra someday!...She didn't give any good smiles besides the one w/her and Stu together!... some were salvageable. Just makes me want a better camera!...

THIS MAY CHANGE THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT ME

I have a hard time understanding some people. After reading blogs...articles..about Planned Parenthood and the de-funding that Susan G Komen breast cancer foundation attempted to take away and the outcry of how horrible it was..they were basically bullied into reversing their decision.or about people wanting to legalize same sex marriages...and how people should separate Church and State...and how much christains are dogged on for not being in favor of it. I don't get it. this may sound crazy but when I vote or give a opinion on how I look at something...my morals and christian beliefs always affect how I decide something. Why would I help support something I am totally against and believe it is wrong? 

The whole planned parenting issue. I just honestly... can't support something that offers abortion. No matter how you put it in front of me...how you switch it around...abortion=DEATH of a Innocent Baby....can you possibly ever imagine all the people that we have aborted. Imagine what they may have accomplished? Can you? ...I'm never one to ruffle anybody's feathers..or cause any waves... like on facebook... I don't post many  political things usually...but about Abortion..I can't help it... I'll share anything and everything that I feel is valid. My most favorite and makes sense and logical thinking I've read is here: http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/i-used-to-be-pro-choice-but-then-the-partial-birth-abortion-debate-happened . Its a good read and has many valid points for women who believe in Pro Choice. ....what is this all about??....hmmm...I guess after all this...I'm saying is Ya..some of this stuff I don't believe in is legal...and some stuff..is in the process or many people are trying to get it to become legal... but I'm not going to step aside and get in line. I'm not apologetic about how I feel concerning issues like abortion. Nope nodda zlich... I don't care if PP gave you affordable birth control or affordable doctor visits to even millions...they are killing babies...you can look at it any way you want...dead bloody babies are involved in that place....and this chica isn't going to support that. How can you even justify your support for planned parenthood? because they offer all these other great services for women?...still at the end of the day...they kill babies. and lastly..lets say I was Pro-choice....and  someday when I get to heaven and I look God in the eyes...and he asks me why did I help support a place that helped destroy his children..what would I say to him?...."I didn't physically kill my unborn baby I just wanted women to have a choice"...would he reply why would you want to help another women sin against me?.....is that a logical scenario? IDK...shrugging my shoulders?...       

if you want some good reading about Pro Life visit http://bryankemper.com/ ..its Stand True Christ Centered Pro Life. 




welp... after all this..I'm just going to resign for the night seeing its 1:42am...man tomorrow will be a early one no doubt...hopefully kids sleep in so Momma can.... 
Till next time :) 
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