Feeling Christmissy & Clum#4 & More

So I’ve been a bit MIA this year. I can say I have wrote more in my journal which is good for memories for my kids or grandkids someday to read and think…oh my lord…she was literally crazy. J

My state right now?

Right now as everyone knows it is a few days before Christmas and unlike normal I’m super excited! This year we have a “big” tree with lights AND ornaments and it has even been up since since December 1^st. Yes, you can say I’m being very festive. I normally have a mini 3-4 ft tree and that doesn’t even go up till the middle of December. I put off wrapping presents because I HATE to wrap. Something changed this year. I’m not sure. I don’t know if it’s because Jake & I’s family is getting bigger and bigger? Or maybe I’m just “happier”? I’m really excited to see the kid’s faces Christmas morning. Sondra has always loved her “American Girl” dolls and this year she realized they were not actual American Girl brand but a cheaper version. So- this year looking at Christmas money and their present budget I was going to make it work for us to get her a actual American Girl doll. Shania I’m super excited too for her to open her presents. She is getting for her “want” a Bitty Baby from American Girl too. Then I well Santa got her a diaper bag with some essentials and a couple preemie outfits to fit her baby and had 3 mini cloth diapers made for her too. Her sibling Gift well Stu was the one who seen it at once upon a child a used fisher price cradle and he asked if he could get her that for her gift. I know she will be getting a stroller too. I can’t wait to see her react. Both the girls are getting special “want” presents. Sondra is literally going to freak. We have talked a lot about this past year how expensive they are and how we will eventually get her one but she just has to wait…then when I started thinking on Christmas it just struck me that she has made a lot of sacrifices too with this “new” life of living here and me staying home. How she has really matured since Shania has come and has stepped up and how hard I am on her (I hate to admit that don’t tell her Dad)…but I thought we need to try and do this. So yeah…I obsessed and researched which one to buy. I had one in mind the look a likes and when we were looking just to look at them online she picked the one I thought looked like her most and would be good. So yea I was elated. Shania getting a bitty baby mostly because I needed to fill her budget and I got their dolls 20% off and free shipping. Here is a makeup of how we do presents.

 This is the 2^nd year of doing it last year they were a little annoyed but this year they didn’t even bat an eye. They get 1 Santa present, something from their siblings, Something to wear, Something to Read, and Something they need, and something they want. Doing it this way has helped me to not just buy aimless crap. Or cheap plastic crap that I’ll throw away before the next Christmas. My favorite to buy is their something to read. I love books and with Stu I found a Jurassic Dino Guide that tells about a whole bunch of dinos and has pictures which we made one in a notebook but lacked a lot of pictures and he makes me just read it to him so he will really like his book. Also- I got him the book “The Stinky Cheese Man”. Shania got a Elmo book about sleeping in a big kid bed. And Sondra got a certain book from a series she likes. She is getting pretty specific in what she likes to read so I got to stick to it. Stuart was my hard one to buy for. Shania I had to force myself not to buy a few extra gifts I kept reminding myself that her birthday is in February it’s okay if she doesn’t get a Pony Surprise for Christmas that can be her birthday present. But Stu every toy commercial comes on he says I want that, I need that!  He didn’t or couldn’t consistently tell me one thing he really wanted. So I seen the 7” Kindle Fires for $35 and thought perfect! He will love it since he plays games on Jake’s old iPhone that has a cracked screen. It will be nice to have that as leverage over him. J Then his Santa gift he got that big nerf module gun that he can change it or whatever. He did tell me that a few times and I thought he will get in trouble with it but yes boys and nerf guns it’s just a natural pair.

This Clum baby #4 has me…anxious and undone. We find out next month what it shall be. We are super excited! I’m also happy and relieved that I’m into my 2^nd trimester. I’ve always felt lucky to have normal pregnancies and miscarriage has never had me worried but this time around it has. At my 12 week check up the doctor couldn’t find a heartbeat and I just got done asking her about if something was wrong I would be bleeding or I would know something is wrong and she said No. That she has had patients come in and have no idea or swore they felt the baby move that day. Then she told me I shouldn’t sit and worry about it and how miscarriage rates go way down in 2^nd trimester. HEH..so yeah she can’t find a heartbeat and she reassured me it was the Doppler that it had been acting funny and my 3 c-section scar tissue didn’t help either. But told me I could wait in the exam room or waiting room and they will get me in and do a quick ultrasound. Let me tell you what- it was an eternity…but really a few minutes. Jake had texted me to see what was taking so long at that moment I was regretting I never asked him to every appointment heh…holding my tears in sitting in the waiting room I let him know. I have tears in my eyes just thinking about it now… but I sat and just thought how I’d tell the kids and EVERYONE else. I told myself I wouldn’t be bitter if I did indeed had lost the baby. I hate that “lost the baby”. Like its my fault? But I prayed to God. I prayed as I walked back to the ultrasound room and prayed that even though I hadn’t met this baby yet I prayed for him to let me keep it because I loved it…and didn’t actually realize how much I loved it till this moment. As soon as the lady put the cold jelly on my abdomen and the tv screen filled with our baby and I immediately seen the heart beating I just smiled. She looked at me probably seeing my huge smile and tears in my eyes she told me it looked perfect and everything was fine. She looked at everything got me a few pictures and showed me the babe in 3d and it just amazed me. This babe hadn’t been “real” to me that it was just a thought. I mean yeah I’ve had the pregnancy symptoms but just the thought of a 4^th child it hadn’t I guess really hit me. And as she was looking at the baby measuring ect I just said Oh my goodness that is a baby! It’s a baby in there it just feels so real seeing this. And she just smiles and says well Joie it is pretty real to me you see that is its arm and its other arm and showed me all of the parts laughing. This is my 4^th child I’ve seen many ultrasounds so yeah- I’m not making this up. It became really real that day so for that I’m thankful I was able to have an unexpected ultrasound. J Also- my 16 week check up Monday as soon as she put the Doppler on my tummy we heard the heart beat 150. That rascal!

So- this is the first year of the holidays without my last remaining Grandparent here. We still went to Gramps house for thanksgiving and will be for Christmas. It still seems so strange for Gramps to not be here. With Stuart and Shania I thought about how I was sad that Grandma would never meet them- but now this feeling is different. It makes me sad that Gramps won’t meet this one or this baby won’t brighten his whole day. Because gramps stayed home all the time and couldn’t leave the house much so when he seen one of his grandkids it surely made his whole day and everyone would hear who stopped by and what trouble or funny thing they did. Sondra has her “grandma cookies” and now Sondra, Stuart, and Shania have “Grandpa’s candy”. Little things that will keep their memory alive. It just seems weird though an unsinkable ship sunk when he passed away. I never believed he would make it far past grandma but then it came to be that he would probably never die in my thoughts- he always got better. So yea- I think you should make memories keep your traditions and hug your family every chance you get. You never know when you will lose any of your family. You can’t guarantee who sits at your table this Christmas will be at the next.

Shania and a new baby... I think baby 4 will shake Shania to her core lol... Well everyone knows it... Everyone that knows her says Oh my goodness what are you going to do?...I really don't know. There is nothing quiet or delicate about that girl...I'm amazed at how different my 3 kids are. I thought Sondra was a wild Lady...oh uh huh nothing compared to Nia. She is the child that NEEDS a younger sibling and I'm glad she will get one but man its scary... its scary because she likes me being hers... she is bossy....she is pushy...and she isn't afraid to fight for what she wants...so yes...we will have a big adjustment come June. (yes June...I thought I would get a may baby since I go a week early with a C/S but low and behold they move my due date back and it will be first week of June...3 flipping kids in June lol)....Anyways... my thoughts with getting her all decked out in Baby gear for Christmas is whatever I'm doing with Baby 4 she can do too... maybe she won't be so far up my butt fighting to get to my lap but also she will be sitting beside me taking care of her baby... Just start praying now :) 

So... its a little Abbey Evils day (that is a endearing name for my wild women)... I can hear the girls in their room awake from their nap... I must be going :)... I hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!....PS if you would like to come to a Christmas Eve service Harrod Christian Church has one :) anyone and everyone is always welcome!

 

Apologies, Gramps, fair, hair, and Preschool goodbyes

Oh hello :)
1. I'm sorry its been a really long time since I've updated you. Seems as if life gets in the way of a SAHM. Sometimes I probably could update you and I feel like I have nothing to say. Other times I have  A LOT to say but just can't get it out. A lot of life has passed in these last few months..big changes..big loses..
2. My Gramps passed away.. I'm feeling more sorrow or pain you can say than I did leading up to it. I was actually happy. I was happy that he was reunited with Gram. I was happy he was in heaven enjoying life walking probably running without pain or struggle. Every time I had visited Gramps those past few times I heard him say something about Gram. I think he was really missing her. Then when his sister came and visited and his siblings and their families all reunited......I think he was good. Truly he had nothing keeping him in this world. Sure he loved his kids and grand-kids and great grand-kids..but I can tell you once I get to that age and if Jake is in heaven...I sure as heck will want to be with him. Every time I visited him in hospital I wondered if this was the last.... I'm happy I did see him awake. My parents kept the kids and I ran up there and My Aunt Darcy was there. His dinner came in and he wanted me to feed him. But Darcy insisted she would so I figured he wanted me up by him to talk to him. I showed him my latest 3 pictures of the kids (all include them at the end) and we both chuckled at each new story of their trouble. I also told him about how me and Jake forgot our 9th year wedding anniversary. He reminded me what a good man Jake was. After a bit I told him good bye and hugged and kissed him and told him I loved him and he returned the love yous. I went to the hospital 2 more times and both he wasn't exactly there. They called in hospice and he quickly passed after that. His funeral viewing felt like it lasted 20 hours...so many people came. It actually felt like 2 viewings... the the front was gramps in his casket then the back room was full of grand kids and great grand kids running wild... lol... I figured they might charge us double... Stu was taking the free mints and selling them :)... My favorite part was hearing all these Kenny stories... Of how he helped someone in a bind..whether financially or just by doing...Gramps was a very generous man. That is his legacy...he was a good christian man..that the lord blessed him in a lot of ways...and he was always quick to give back. I think the hardest part of that whole time was seeing my family's grief. I was a little bit relieved for my younger to kids. My gramps fell and by chance Jake and the 2 old kids and a cousin found him. He was coherent and talking so my kids did talk to him that day and seen him being taken by ambulance to hospital. So they knew he was sick and hurt and I told them I wasn't sure if he was going to come home from hospital but maybe he might go home to heaven. So it wasn't like they visited gramps one day and the new thing they knew he was gone. The day of the service at the end we had to tell him goodbye. Stuart not exactly sure but was okay...Sondra in tears. Now that...yea I bauled my Momma eyes out....just like I'm doing now thinking about it...  that..was the hardest part.

3. Fair  came and went. It was a lot of fun. also a lot of accomplishments for Colt and Chloe, and Sondra. They all get better and better..... jake's 30th bday was on the last day too. at the dance party we surprised him with a cake and all :) he danced the night away lol..

4. I think my mind is set on growing my hair out... I miss it super long... its just past my shoulders now...please hair just keep growing...    

5. Stuart has started school. Well preschool. He was supposed to start kindergarten but I guess they had other plans for him. So I took him to get screened and registered for kindergarten. They did all that stuff and was told his scores ect and was told he was recommended for the 2 year program. which was exactly what we wanted. I told her I knew we had a lot to work on over the summer but we were excited b.c. we had a great experience with Sondra completing the 2 year program. On a Friday after all the kids were screened and tested I was called and a kindergarten teacher said that I knew my child best and It was up to us but after looking at the results of all the kids Stuart had much lower scores and they wanted to see if we would be interested in sending him to the preschool they thought it would be more his speed only being there a few hours than all day. I told her I would have to think about it and talk to my husband (I wasn't exactly sure what he would think about it but I knew I didn't want preschool). She said thats fine just give them a call back. Well I called back that monday and left a message that we talked about it but we would like to keep Stu in the 2 year program we felt comfortable since having Sondra go through it. I get a call back from teacher and she told me after looking things over the school psychologist and teachers recommend him for 1 year. I said I don't want 1 year...I want the 2 year. She said with his scores he wouldn't be able to do that. I was a bit upset and said I didn't understand how he wouldn't be in the class after I was told he would be and I signed the paper agreeing with what was decided. I asked if he went into the 1 year would we just automatically be held back? Their response: No we won't say that we will just see how he does. I hung up not telling them either way of what I wanted to do. I was super upset. I was upset because I felt like it was my fault. Have I failed my little man. In reality I should of realized it wasn't nobody's fault..there is no guilt here.... All kids develop differently. Stuart may not be able to write his name or do the required things that he "should" know but the kid can drive a skid loader out work his own father and everyone knows his father's busy body syndrome. His problem is he doesn't have time to do that school work. :) So after Jake went through the chain of command we were assured preschool would be a good thing. Also it will be free and will be transported to and from. So there was 2 pros. After he was screened by the preschool I was happy he did do more things for the tester and his scores went up a little bit since his kindergarten screening. They explained to me the preschool wasn't free and wasn't guaranteed bus. They want to further test him for speech and OT. Once he qualifies for extra help there- then it will be free and they will transport him until then we will have to pay and take him to and from school. So in the end after speaking with the preschool I feel good. The school wasn't going to let stuart in the 2 year program so this was our best option from there. We didn't want to put him in 1 year and watch him struggle. I'm not here wanting to bring negativity to AE at all..I'm a big supporter..but I have issue with being told I know my child best and it was our decision only to be bullied into putting him into the preschool. I only say that because with each "special services" student the preschool has another place for a typical student opens up. I'm only curious to what are the benefits of AE and having kids going to the preschool besides the obvious one. I'm praying and hoping Stuart will benefit drastically and be ready for 1 year kindergarten. That is our goal. I already know he is benefiting. I pick him up today look in his book bag and oh my word.. a color page that he colored. not real perfect but he  SAT down and colored! He never does that for me. I'm happy. He seems to enjoy it and hopefully come October his cousin Jude will be attending too..he already has his friend Aiden from church there... add a third amigo and there would be trouble :)      

6. Well ... I must be going..I don't want to write too much..I've been trying to write more in my journal. I have this beautiful leather bound journal made in Italy that my parents got me a few years ago at Christmas... and I'm shamed that it isn't even half full..that is my goal..fill my journal with adventure.

please pray for a friend her new grand daughter is having some health issues also pray for her doctors and nurses that are figuring out what is going wrong.

Love ME

halt the dead/bestbottomdiaper/badMom/PICS/Crossroads

Hello :).... You will never believe this but Jake & I have watched all of walking dead... lol... after we watched the season finale of season 5...he looks at me and says...SO..there is no more new ones???? ...lol...My reply..what are we going to do? LOL I love watching TV shows that way... I hate waiting week to week... but now..Jonas started us on a new show...its the vikings...its his favorite show..we haven't began it yet..but that's our next hopefully awesome show..

Shania's bum is pretty much all healed up... made me so sick..almost seemed it would get better than get bad again..then better....You'll never believe this next statement but we have been using cloth diapers too... well not full time...I have used disposals at night past 2 nights... after using those cloth "training pants" when she had diaper rash at its worst I thought to myself- well this isn't bad...and then I started researching and decided when we have our next I would like to to try it...then deciding on the same brand(best bottom diapers)  that my sister in law used with her 1st... I offered to buy hers and she is too kind gave me her stash..I thought..lets try with Shania... so far so good! Granted I started Saturday..but HEY!..Its a good start though... the only extra steps is the poo diapers...and luckily with Shania she is older and its more big girl poo so its not too bad...now if I cloth diapered a newborn I'd probably have to make Jake install one of those little sprayers on my toilet to clean off the baby poo..... but really if you want to get technical or frank...I'd rather knock some poo off a diaper insert and throw in a diaper pail and wash later then not buy diapers...lol... also these diapers are One size fits all..so they can go through multiple babies..so retail price they are 16.95 I found some for 15 ... I don't think that isn't too bad... I'll let you know on my next update how it goes!... so far so good... 

Mother's Day is this weekend....... I did something bad... I went to equine fair and saw all these pretty Montana west purses...and wanted to buy one so bad...but they were just so expensive...and then I thought...I was going to wait- I've got 2 4h friends that sell them..so I found one online that I really liked and they were able to track it down and get it...so I tell Jake last weekend...I've got a purse I'm getting and I'm going to give it to you and you and the kids can wrap and give it to me for mothers day lol... so ya My thought is this is truly the only holiday that its just about me..so I'm going to live it up lol... even if I picked out my own mothers day present I'm doing it...and the kids can think they did it I don't care..I'm going to act oh so surprised... and tell them what a good job they done! lol another great thing..this weekend is purse bingo!... I cant wait... a night out just me and friends... 

tonight I'm going to a Essential Oil Make and Take its mother's day theme..all stuff to pamper yourself...I'm excited!.. I love having the option of essential oils for anything...

Also- I took My cousins pictures for their grad party invite... I'm posting this one here since tateybutt didn't like it..so she won't see it here..but I love this one..its probably my most favorite lol not posed just goofing off laughing about who knows..it was a fun night..but at first I had some anxiety/nervous about I haven't taken any body's photos which is alright by me- I enjoy it as a hobby but that is it. being at home..I've come to realize my time is valuable...I'm with my 1 or all of kids literally 100% of the time almost always..so I don't always have time....but as we progressed taking pictures I got more and more comfortable with it...Makes me pretty excited for Stuart & Shania's pictures next...I'll probably throw Sondra in there too for a sibling picture and of course her "summer" picture.. 

Also- talking about my last post and my cross roads... My fasa came in and after thinking about it.. Me and Jake talking about it... it doesn't make sense to go to school right now... why go to school to wait another 7 years to use that degree.after all our kids are in school.... I'm thinking I'm going to put my application in at a daycare close to home and if something works out great...but if not that is okay too... I think I sometimes feel like I should be doing something because I'll only have one kid at home come fall and I'm less of a person. But I'm not...We will keep ourselves busy and hey maybe have a part time job..who knows!... 

welp I must be going..Mothers- enjoy your day hopefully you feel like its mother's day everyday! .. :) pray for me and my little family! ... 

Love, 

Me 

Here we go!

At a crossroads right now… Stu heads off to school in Fall… should I get a part time job? I know the family could really use it. Do I go back to school? Do I stay home and *think/consider* having my 4^th last baby? I have feelings of obligation- I very much love being at home- but I don’t think I will ever have a full time job again unless it was financially right… I like the idea the wife stays home with the kids and home and the husband comes home at night. but also the idea of school is really awesome- its just I have a few ideas of what I want to do but they are not panning out. My FASA should come back by the end of the week so we will see how that works out. When I was working I liked that I had no idea what I truly was missing. I worked because financially it was the best choice. Now- it would be a good choice but what number value do you put on time with your kids? I mean does Jake feel better that he knows I am home with the kids? Does he like having supper waiting on him when he arrives home? Does he enjoy having a cleaa….bahahaha… I don’t have a tidy home… but is he happy with me home?... hmm… decisions decisions..

My weeks have been good…it was really nice when the weather started warming up but its stagnant right now and has been chilly we have been starting our corn burner at night…I’m a newly super fan of walking dead…I know right?? Jake says I’m just 5-6 years late. Seeing how we do not have cable so our show watching is less than interesting…Walking Dead started playing on 8.2 at 10:30pm  on Wednesday nights and naturally I watched it some and was disgusted with it and so I would just watch late night…well- that kind of wore off of being disgusted or I just became desensitized and grew curious.. WELL we got a hold of the first few seasons and quickly got through them…Like..I cried in a couple episodes- I have a major crush on Darrel J I like to think if we actually had a zombie apocalypse Jake would be Darrel…plus… he kind of reminds me of Stuart …Darrel could be Stuart too.. lol… anyways..I’m crazy I know.

Sondra & Stuart have started tball… lol.. it is actually quite funny… this year marks Sondra’s 3^rd year and Stuart is just beginning. Sondra from the very beginning has always been a wonderful student. Wants to please and do her best. Stuart is a different story. He wants to do well but he and the other boys already goof off and just can’t keep their hands off each other. Boys and Girls are just so different! I very much appreciate seeing the difference. I’m happy and blessed to have both son & daughters. I’m looking forward to the games this year. Sondra will be our all star (that sounds like “that parent” doesn’t it?)… I’m just saying Sondra will be good this year being it her last year and truly she is a testament to good coaches and a good daddy playing catch with her anytime she asks… Stuart I’m excited to see his progress from first practice to last game and years following…I can see Sondra to continue the softball thing…I’m curious to see if Stuart will continue…I’m sure his Daddy wouldn’t mind…  

Shania has been my problem. She has a milk allergy. I lately have been putting a little milk into her Soymilk bottles. I just am annoyed with the fact she has this milk allergy. I hate having to get separate milk. Planning ahead when we go places knowing they wouldn’t keep soymilk in fridge. Just annoying! So Friday night I finally got up to 4oz milk and 4 oz soymilk. She had done okay with 3oz milk and 5oz soy. (sure you could tell in her diaper but nothing explosive or runny) Well she woke up with a horrible nasty diaper Saturday morning. I was gone all morning at a mom 2 mom sale and Jake was just figuring she had a bug or something. I feel horrible because he was just doing what I was telling him and he continued the soy/regular milk all day until we talked. By Saturday night he butt was flaming and was so uncomfortable we started Tylenol/Motrin to try keep her comfortable. By Sunday Jake stayed home with her while we went to church. It got worse and I was thinking I am not taking my baby to the ER for stinking DIAPER RASH. lol….so we suffered through Sunday (b.c. I was making supper and I wanted my Sister to see her diaper rash wanting to know if she thought I should take her to doc next day) and then leaving Sunday dinner early because she was just too uncomfortable. I have a lump in my throat writing about Nia’s pain. Nothing is worse then changing your babe’s diaper and her legs are trembling and she just keeps shaking her head back and forth screaming. ALL because of damn milk. Was happy I went to doctor. She gave me some nystatin that has steroids in it also. Her diaper rash is looking better but still feels like its taking forever to heal. Once this is cleared up I’m going to get her blood work done and her special order to test for Jake’s selective IGA blood deficiency. I’ve had the first 2 tested thinking they had the IGA thing but was surprised it came back negative. Hopefully Nia will surprise me and not have it..but my sis thinks she is my difficult one and will have it. So please I’m asking prayers for my little Shania for healing and comfort. She does have more good phases right now..but still is pretty sore. Please pray J thank you

 

As always keep me in your prayers please and I'll do the same for you... I'll be back soon :)

Happy Birthday Shania! EO

Wow! What a weekend we had..well what a week! .... Shania's birthday was last week!..I can not believe she is one. I know that is said so much..but literally it feels like just a few weeks ago she was born... I can not believe the time went by that fast... I can not believe I have been home for a full year. Don't worry..my house is still a complete utter mess and my children's bedrooms are clean for a few short days and back to a mess. 

On Shania's birthday I tried switching her over to regular milk..I had no more soy formula and only had regular milk. So I said lets try it!... Not such a good idea... she had explosive gas and diarrhea. Yellow foamy..just nasty...so I broke down and got her soy milk...which she took without a hitch..and she also took regular milk no problem. My other two fought the  regular milk for a few days..Shania..nope..laid down drank her whole bottle like it was nothing... but after a day or so on soy milk her bowels are back to normal...grrr... I'm not sure if there is hope for her to switch to regular milk or what...

All last week I worked on stuff for Shania's party and am so thankful that it all came together...I'm also pretty thankful that my Sis Jess came to church and helped me get everything ready and helped while the party went on... I do have the best sister...OH ya and thankful for Jake b.c. he put up ALL the decorations... (sarcasm)... Her party was perfect except for the fact I couldn't find her 1 year candle...lol...later that night when I sat down after kids went to bed...I found it in my purse!....ggrrr!

Having a "cold" birthday was a bit different than my other 2... they are june babies...and their parties are normally outside or in my grandpa's garage where we are swimming ect...But hers I thought to have it at the church since we have such a great social room there. But it was a lot of fun and work decorating it but well worth it. B.c I know Shania WILL NOT remember this but when she looks at pictures I want her to see that she was just as special as her siblings. She wasn't my first baby girl or our first baby boy or she won't remain my "baby"...instead she was the 3rd child..which she will someday have a younger sibling and will be the "middle" child..so I just want her to feel special- that she mattered..that I was on the down hill or gave up caring about the details... 

Interesting.... 

So I have been playing with Oils......essential oils... literally name me anything you might be dealing with and I could tell you "there is a oil for that".... I might not know off hand but I could find out for you!.... My SIL has shared with me some EO (essential oils) when Shania was having Ear Infection issues...and they helped soothe the pain... then when she was having diaper rash really really bad...like I would have took pics it was so bad..but you know why I didn't..but Shania had broken skin all over her bottom..and EO with Coconut oil helped so much..I would put the oil mix down first then slather diaper rash or Vaseline over it and bam..It would make a difference in one diaper change... so naturally I wanted to learn more and get some... I didn't even realize we had been using a particular EO for quite some time.....concerning Skin infections we have this bottle that we lovingly referred to as the stinky stuff(Mike gave it to Jake)..whenever there was a rash or a few skin bumps that looked funny/red that may look like impetigo or could develop into impetigo or some other skin infection we would say: PUT THE STINKY STUFF ON IT!!!q.....well after researching EO ect I got the stinky stuff out and low and behold OH its Tea Tree Oil..... lol... well look at that??!! Another reason as to the effectiveness of Essential Oils and why I wanted more.. Finally I got a kit a couple weeks ago and wow.. its awesome... My SIL gave me her wax warmer and wax a month or so ago ...and now I can tell why... the diffuser I received with my oils is awesome!... I'm going to have to find someone to take the wax warmer b.c. the only thing I like to run is my diffuser and mix different combos... I'm finding more and more ways to use the oils and if you are interested at all let me know I have a 24% discount your welcome to use! .... 

Well- I'm watching the "evil abbey girls" today and I think I hear JoJo moving around in the crib!...I must be going...Gotta go rescue the sweet babe!... 

Talk to you Soon, 

Love, 

Me  

Knock Knock Knockin' on One Year's Door!

Knock Knock Knockin' on One Year's door... Shania will be one in 4 days...4. days.. where has it went??? I just can't believe it... I want to cry yet scream Yippee! I love this little lady. I already know how I will start out her 1 bday letter.... Dear Favorite Child...lol can a mother have a favorite... well really honestly it changes day in day out..she reigns more just because she takes regular naps :s ...oh and the cutest thing...she has fallen in love with her Daddy... She lights up and runs to him when he comes home...cutest thing ever...

Shania is the happiest baby I've ever had! She has been walking up a storm since 9 months old..which isn't fun for this momma... luckily though she loves to be held..so I haven't missed out to much...she plays..then looks to me comes for some snuggles and kisses then be back to playing... My Mom always asks how do I get anything done...well...I DON'T! lol

So Shania's party is coming up too.. Its March 1st. I originally wanted it to be a piggy theme but after a few days of seeing her stop what she was doing to watch sesame street and dancing around I gave up my dream of pink filled party to a primary color filled party.... it has actually been fun thinking and planning her party...I'm just trying to do my best ya know..I'm a stay at home mom..I should have time to do all that artsy fartsy fun craft stuff...lol... Well... I'm trying... and I'll have to post pics of party later... its just family and couple friends... but that quickly turns into a lot of people!!!!! Also-  I need to take Shania's One Year pictures. That is the tough thing about a cold weather baby!... I wish it was nice out..but maybe at Jessy's she has good light indoors I will try maybe Monday!...Wish me luck!

I don't know why but sometimes i feel disconnected from people... I've got a few close
friends but yet I feel disconnected.  Not from them but people in general.

This year has gone by fast... Going from a 2 full time working parents to 1 full time working parent household is a big difference. Not a bad different but its not easy....but its easy to decide to do and I'm glad we took that leap and decide X amount of money wasn't worth the time away.

Sondra has matured so much. It makes me sick...I look at Shania accomplish things and think to myself ....Oh I remember when Sondra did that... and then I look at Sondra and she is this 7 year old young lady.... I loved this valentines day when I asked her what her Sweetie (Daddy) was going to get her. Her reply: I want jewelry.. SO as I go to walmart to get the kids gifts..Jake texts make sure its nice... lol So I look and see rings...Jake loved the idea and I asked the counter lady for a ring box and then it was set I couldn't wait to see her face when her daddy gave it to her. I got my valentine Stuart a box of his favorite candy Reese cups..which then I was smothered in kisses and reminders of I was HIS valentine.. and Shania received a "ring" too..well its a teether shaped like a diamond ring... :) ...i love the idea of valentine's day being for our kids.. Jake is his daughter's valentine and Stuart is mine..

With this cold weather I'm so looking forward to family vacation this year! I'm just looking forward to fall too.. i love the not hot but not cold weather! well I must be going :) :) I  have a lot to figure out. I will be doing the majority of the birthday shopping this weekend..and also I need to get the gift bags completed and a few other little crafts...wish this Mommy luck!

 Love you and keep me on your prayer list..
Me